I recently watched The Red Pill, and have to admit on certain issues I agree with them. I know a lot of us small dick guys have experienced extreme abuse at the hands of some women, especially related to our penis size, and I can see why some guys are so angry about how unfair this is when compared to how body shaming women are met with such public outrage. I understand why some guys are joining the ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ (MGTOW) phenomena and deciding to never have a relationship with a woman again.
I read all the time on Reddit how small dick guys are so angry at women and are quick to be shouted down by feminist supporting posters/moderators decrying their rage to be misogynistic in the extreme. This culture of blame and shame seems to be just another vehicle for the feminist ideal to be pushed down men’s throats. Yet, small dick men experience the worst of female abuse, and this is something society jokes about, rather than discourages. In a time when men’s abuse of women is getting such widespread coverage in the media, why is the abuse we suffer at the hands of women considered a joke?
The naysayers of the MRM continue to use shaming words to make the victims of female abuse sound whiny, stupid, or hatemongers. They might say, “They’re just upset because they’re not attractive enough or rich enough to get a good woman.”
Well, this is the point for us small dick guys. We’re told we’re not good enough on a constant basis for something we’re born with, and yet these people expect us to be happy about it? I find it incredibly shallow that women base attraction on penis size, looks, or wealth, and this to me is how feminism has become toxic in the modern world. Wasn’t one of feminism’s gripes with men the objectification of women based on looks? So why is it now OK for them to do this to men? It’s bad enough the patriarchy has always seen men as nothing more than a disposable commodity, it seems women now do, too. The irony being that feminists wanted to bring down the patriarchy, have now become it.
So, this brings us to MGTOW, and I have to admit I’ve been living this life now for the last twenty years and I didn’t even know it. I’m a level three. I gave up on women after my divorce because I was all the things they say – ugly, small dick, and poor – not good husband material. Damn, not even good boyfriend material. Yet, I decided I’m better off alone, better off just doing my thing, looking after myself, and I found true happiness.
Without a woman telling me what to do all the time, or nagging me, or accusing me of some bullshit thing based on their ever-changing emotions, I thrived. I traveled, I studied, I still had enough sex to keep me happy (and masturbation is fun too), I had great friend’s, and I never felt lonely. It somehow even made me finally feel at ease about my small penis because I didn’t give a damn anymore what some woman thought of it. I didn’t feel depressed any longer that having a small dick meant I’d be forever excluded for the perfect world feminists want. In fact, if I ever got abusive comments from a woman for my small penis I smiled because it just confirmed the new truth I found: I’m better off without a woman in my life.
The Five Levels of MGTOW
- Level 0 – Situational Awareness: the member has “taken the red pill” and embraces the idea that gender equality is a lie and propaganda but has to stay in their situation for familial or financial reasons.
- Level 1 – Rejection of Long-Term Relationships: the man rejects long-term relationships but will still partake in short-term relationships and sexual encounters.
- Level 2 – Rejection of Short-Term Relationships: the member won’t participate in hook-ups or any form of short-term or sexual relationships.
- Level 3 – Economic Disengagement: a member at this stage refuses to earn more money than is necessary for sustaining life. He views the government as tyrannical and is trying to actively drain money from the bureaucrats.
- Level 4 – Societal Disengagement: this is as far as a mainstream MGTOW can go. Here the man refuses to interact with society.
So how do MGTOW’s find sexual release without a woman? Some men have one night stands, others rely solely on masturbation, some use online webcams/chat, and some routinely visit sex workers. The old adage “You don’t pay for the sex, you pay them to leave” is a rather popular sentiment for MGTOW’s.
Every small dick man must make up his own mind regarding how he see’s his life going forward. Some men can’t imagine themselves without the “Western Dream” of having a home, wife, 2.4 kids, and a dog. This has been pedaled to us all by governments for so long that many feel entitled to this, and suffer anger for being excluded from it. This sense of entitlement is something feminists love to throw in men’s faces, and while I agree it’s a lie to think any of us are entitled to anything, we should at least acknowledge that men have been conditioned to think this way by the patriarchy.
Many small dick guys get angry because we’re sold the romantic dream all the time from Hollywood and TV about heterosexual relationships, yet when you find yourself the victim of constant humiliation, abuse, and rejection from women it’s only natural to question the female nature. To be rejected even when you’re doing all the other stuff right, knowing it’s all about your dick size, is equally as bad as a guy rejecting a woman just because she’s obese. It’s only natural to feel angry that you’re being excluded from the “Western Dream” for something so superficial.
Small dick men also feel angry because there’s a constant noise from the blue piller’s that emasculating yourself to a woman is the best way to get one to like you. We’re told by these well-meaning people that being sexually subservient to a woman is the best way to please her. “All you think of is PIV sex,” they say. “Use your mouth, hands, and toys, and make it all about her.”
I think these people miss the point when it comes to small dick men. I think we’re perfectly happy to go the extra mile for our lovers, but not to the point of being emasculated by it. Don’t we have a right to enjoy being fulfilled as men, too? Why is it just all about her and what she wants and needs? This is the feminist propaganda being spread by the patriarchy to further enslave men to the system. To make us obedient producers, workers, and soldiers.
So for small dick men thinking that living life without a woman is the answer to their problems, then I can only agree. Since governments and the media won’t take the violence and abuse we suffer as small dick men at the hands of women seriously, then we must go our own way. I have written here before that self-acceptance is an important part of living with a small penis, and I still hold to that. Yet, we don’t need to stop being men just to please feminists and the patriarchy, and though they might call us names and keep trying to shame us for not swallowing the cool aid they pedal, we need to claim our lives back.
We need to say enough’s enough. I’m all for equal rights, equal pay, and equal opportunity, what I’m not for is being abused by women, treated as a disposable commodity, objectified, and robbed by the patriarchy when it comes to family law, domestic violence, and divorce. I’m not entitled to anything, I know that, yet it’s my life and I’m going to stop letting the patriarchy and feminists tell me how to live it.
I don’t hate women, and I’m not bitter or angry at them. I have family members and friends who are women, and I love them all. I just choose to keep that love platonic. I don’t need them, and they don’t complete me. I’m not Gay, and consider myself a heterosexual.
However, I have suffered more abuse at the hands of women in my life than I ever have from other men. That’s why I freed myself. I did it long it before it became a thing, and I found real happiness. Maybe, for some small dick men, it’s the best solution to finding their own freedom.