Women Love Oral Sex!
In fact, most women like oral sex more than they like vaginal sex.
According to a recent study 81% of women say they have a better orgasm after receiving oral sex than compared to sexual penetration, and 88% of married women prefer cunnilingus to sexual intercourse. A woman’s clitoris consists of more than 8,000 sensitive nerve endings ready for pleasuring. The amount of nerve endings in a clitoris is twice the amount of the penis.
If you are easily aroused when your partner stroke or lick your penis, can you imagine how pleasurable it could be for your lady if you just spend the effort to stimulate her clitoris? However, the problem is most men think any lick will do. Cunnilingus is more than just poking your tongue around her vagina or clitoris. Cunnilingus is not the same as licking an ice-cream. In fact, if you don’t do it correctly you will probably turn her off more than anything.
So how do you give a good cunnilingus? Here are some tips:
Make sure she is sufficiently aroused. She cannot enjoy cunnilingus if she is not sexually turned on. This is where a lot of men make mistake. They tend to go for the clitoris too early in the game, which can cause a lot of pain if she is not sufficiently aroused yet. So spend some time on foreplay to arouse her before you head south. During foreplay, lick her breasts, neck, spine, inner thighs and ear lobes. Do not forget to lock lips and women get really turn on by kissing.
Place your tongue on the left or right hand side of the clitoris and move it from side to side as if you are sweeping the floor. This is the easiest and most effective method to bring your girl to orgasm. Start off slowly and increase the pace when you see she is enjoying it.
Take her clitoris inside your mouth and suck on it. Do it gently. Warning: DO NOT bite the clitoris or blow air into her vagina.
While licking her clitoris, insert your fingers into her vagina and try to reach for the g-spot.Girls can get 2 orgasms at the same time and your aim is to make her reach both g-spot and clitoral orgasms together. To find the g-spot, insert your index finger into her vagina and make a “come here” motion. The g-spot is located at the front wall of her vagina. Try to reach for a rough bump on the wall. Once you have found the g-spot, stimulate it by applying consistent pressure on it.
Vary the positions you perform cunnilingus. Don’t always stick to one position as things get boring after some time. Spice up your lovemaking by getting into a new cunnilingus position.
Make Pit Stops. Getting up, shifting your body down, and honing in on her vagina like a heat-seeking tongue missile is the opposite of sexy. Work your way down by kissing her neck, breasts, stomach, and inner thighs. Then you can go in for the kill.
Don’t Be All American Pharaoh Out of the Gate. Speaking of going in for the kill, you may like it hard and fast right away…but women like a little buildup. Take your time, assess the situation, and go slow.
She’s Self-Conscious About It. Vaginas be crazy: They can develop an odor, have excess discharge, and even taste different (or so we hear). So it’s pretty understandable that we might feel a little uncomfortable about you sticking your face down there. Tell your girl she’s beautiful, and let her know how into it you are, too. That’ll go a long way.
Play Nice. While we know you want to use every tool you’ve got when you’re down there, never, ever use your teeth. If you do, you and your Dracula fanboy ass might be sleeping together on the couch tonight.
Use Your Ears. If all you hear is “…” you’re doing it wrong. Soften your approach, try a different spot, and listen for moans—that’s your cue that you’ve found the right spot. And Your Hands. Okay, okay—it’s oral sex. But you can make it so much better if you add in a little finger action, as well. Just keep in mind that our hatred of jackhammer sex applies to finger usage as well.
Forget What Your Ex Told You Works. Every woman is different.
She’s Shifting Around for a Reason. We want to help, so let us. If she’s repeatedly arching her back in a way that moves your tongue away from its current maneuver, there’s probably a reason for it. Go to the next move, man.
Know Where the Clitoris Is. Take a second, and run your finger along the top of her vagina. Feel that little bump? You found it—hooray! Still lost? Your buddy Google will clue you in later.
Cunnilingus is simply the best and fastest way to make a girl orgasm. There are many books and online resources available on this subject. Read them all to work out the best technique for you.